Sunday, July 24, 2005

#Courses: Building Interpersonal Skills

Module 6
"SUCCESS IN YOUR WORKPLACE DEPENDS ON HOW WELL YOU WORK WITH OTHERS... YOUR CO-WORKERS, MANAGEMENT, SUBORDINATES OR CUSTOMERS..."
  • Sharing your opinion with others
  • Showing respect for other people's opinions
  • Listening actively and responding with empathy to others
  • Expressing yourself with concrete and clear statements
  • Expressing your feelings on a subject and being sensitive to the feelings of others

Assessing Your Assertiveness - I'm Assertive... How bout u then... he he he

PASSIVE
A high PASSIVENESS score indicates an unwillingness to confront problems. You are likely to be perceived as a "wimp" who can be bullied by others... Your desire to please other people may also be result in your being viewed as inconsistent. In an effort to please everyone , the passive person may please no one.


AGGRESSIVEA high AGRESSIVENESS can cause equally troublesome problems... You are likely to be seen as a "little dictator". Your desire to take command and dominate others is often interpreted as pushy..


ASSERTIVE
The higher your ASSERTIVENESS, the more open and self-expressive you are. You confront issues in a straight forward manner. You say what you meant, but you are not rude or thoughtless... You are sensative to the need of others and receptive to what they have to say... Generally speaking, ASSERTIVENESS is a desirable quality in that it tends to facilitate effective interpersonal relations...

Part of the activity on building interpersonal skills and communication



After much of assessment, I learnt more about myself.... Realising my strengths and to change my weaknesses to strength.... TO motivate myself to excel in LIFE... Together to the TOP....
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Friday, July 22, 2005

Happy Birthday Rugayah and Q U A L I T Y OF S U C C E S S

Last minute birthday Celebration... At 2pm in the Harvest Room...
Birthday celebration for the July Baby, Aunty Rugayah!!!
Front (L-R): Maggie,Wirzianty, Rugayah, Rynne , Kelvin
Back (L-R): Teresa, Aslina, Nirmal, Felinda, Rafidah, Jenny
Wirzianty, Teresa, Aslina, Felinda, Rafidah, Maggie singing birthday song to
Aunty Rugayah!!!
H@ppy Birthdday To You
H@ppy Birthday To You
H@ppy Birthday H@ppy Birthday

H@ppy Birthday to Aunty Rugayah..
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The birthday baby ~ Rugayah..

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Hey All...

I just wanted to share with you what I've learnt throughout my course...
Hope you guys felt motivated and inspired by the information given below...

The Quality of Success is an attitude...

** MOTIVATION
- Inner drive that makes you do something. Motivation makes you productive and allows you to work independently, giving you love for what you do... 

** POSITIVE ATTITUDE
- A character that attracts people prevent setbacks and disappointment and allows trust and belief in oneself and others....

** ENTHUSIASM
- Is a strong interest in something. It comes from within and has a strong effect on others. Enthusiasm lends credibility to what you do and results in your own satisfaction. It has builds spirit around an idea and is a great basis for creativity...

** RISK TAKING
- Good risk taker who is willing to accept failure as part of the course to success...

** CLEAR GOAL
- Having goals allow for small successes that can build to big successes...

"The more you can develop these skills before you go to work. The less training you may need on the job and the greater the value you can bring to the company you work with..."

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Wednesday, July 20, 2005

C L A S S - Finally M O D U LE 6

Hi all,

So sleepy... to the maxXx cos been working 5pm-2am from Monday.
Finally my OD, but need to wake up early cos need to do some shopping...
MMMmmmm what should I buy this tyme... he he he he...
Well today theres another class to attend..
Without realising, it gonna be MODULE 6.
I wonder who will be my trainer for this module...
I bet it better be good, or else we gotta feedback again to DEAKIN ACCORD...

I wonder how this sweetie HIDAYAH duin...
I hope she duin jus fine and leading a happy life with her new relationship...
I'm glad that she happy with her new PRINCE and wishes her all the best...
I'm happy for her cos my dear frenZzZ happiness are my happiness too...
I'll be looking forward for her to tell me that her big day will be next year...
Woowww isn't it wonderful...!!! Ha Ha Ha Ha.... !!!

Oh Ya... The implemented scheme which take place with immediate effect on CPF Fund.
i.e. To purchase private property by using CPF and bank will finances the loan 30-60 years.. Woow isn't it great...
Furthermore now private property (Esp Condo) are cheaper than resale flats...
I bought the resale flat for SGD289K in 1997...
and NOW damn difficult to sell at about the same price or slightly lower...
I saw on the ad at the same block selling only at SGD220K only..
Goshhhh.... What a great different man...!!!!
If I convert this to RM... I could get myself a well furnished 2-3 storey bungalow...
Yeah... If ONLY... ha ha ha.. Just a dream...!!!
But it will come true... he he he.. That will be my nex aim....
To excel I gotta continue to strive...
No matter what obstacles came in between...
TO BELIEVE IS TO ACHIEVE...

Wednesday, July 06, 2005

#Makansutra: Dinner at Long John Silver

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAWAR...!!!!
BEFORE & AFTER THE CAKE BEEN CUT

Well meet up with Lynn, Marya, Wahidaa at Bishan Junction 8 Before heading to class. First, I headed to Sweet Secret to get a birthday cake.

A chocolate cake.... Mmmm... Yummy...
Then we had dinner at Long John Silver...
Then we headed to class at BHCC...
Once again wishing you HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
LOADs of Happy Returns!!!
May Allah blessed you Always in whatever things You do, to the Glory of His Holy Name.
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